Anonymous asked: Dear Mister Misses,
I am girl crazy. I find i cant go one week without contacting some girl and starting some kind of flirtation. Most of the time it goes nowhere, but i always have to keep some girl around, just to keep myself occupied. It doesn't even matter if they have boyfriends or anything, and a lot of times once we have sex, i just stop talking to them. Its not that i don't like them, i just don't like-like them. Why am i so obsessed with the chase?
Dear Wile Coyote,
This is how men are made, and it is kind of sad. Masculinity is so defined by male virility, that it is rare that fathers teach their sons how to define their masculinity in any other way. Emotions? What are those? Just fuck them away. But unfortunately, you can fuck and fuck, but those pesky emotions remain.
There’s nothing wrong with the chase, and not everyone needs to be in a relationship or always has to be looking for one. The key, is knowing what you want and when you want it. But don’t allow yourself to be consumed with only one aspect of relationships. Before you know it, you’re out of breath, and all your chases have long since ended. Your prize?
A head full of memories, a phone full of numbers, a graveyard of potential.
